The Simplifier #22 - Tired of being late
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Contents:
1. A Note From Shawn
2. Our Featured Quote
3. Article: Tired of being late?
4. Your Simplification Tip
5. In the News
6. Featured at ProjectSimplify.com
7. Keep Smiling
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1. A Note From Shawn
Why are we drawn to simplify and organize? In essence, we want a life that is a little easier. This can be a tough change in the tide of “progress!” “efficiency!” and “productivity!” rapidly flowing through our culture. But are we also remembering to stay true to what is important to us? Unfortunately, it sometimes takes adversity to remind us how important living life well is.
This weekend, my year-old kitty had a fatal run in with raccoons. An unfair intersection of the wild and domestic worlds. I spent the day partly in shock, partly in grief. Several days later, I still feel her spunky, curious energy dancing through the house. It brings added importance to the question: How can I stay true to what is important to me? And when I answer, “Enjoy encounters with friends, family (human and furry) and colleagues,” and “Do work I love,” I know that these are inherently a part of a life free of stress and rush. For me, the work of simplifying and organizing are my means to stay true to what I love.
Until next time,
Shawn
2. Our Featured Quote
“Time is what we want most, but what we use worst.“
-William Penn
3. Article: Tired of being late?
By Shawn Tuttle
Be a fly on the wall for a moment. You are in a room where a 2-person meeting is about to take place. One woman walks in, takes a seat, pulls out her notebook—she’s ready. She pulls a magazine out of her bag and reads an article. Ten minutes later (and late!) another woman comes pushing into the room like a Tasmanian Devil and plops her stuff on the table breathlessly exclaiming, “I’m so sorry I’m late! I lost track of time and there was no where to park, and…”
Are you like that second woman—always frazzled and never on time? Could family, friends, and colleagues say about you, “Oh, he/she’s always late”? Making excuses for tardiness doesn’t earn back the goodwill and respect lost when you are consistently late. Being on time repeatedly does.
Being on time regularly has many other benefits as well. You portray a calm and collected persona, indicating that you are able to handle responsibility. You are more likely to be called “organized.” And if you feel more organized, and people think you’re more organized, you’re well on your way to actually being more organized!
If you are frustrated by the negative effects of living “Tasmanian Devil”-style and want to change your wild ways, check out these easy tips:
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Take time to estimate your departure time.
When entering appointments in your calendar, take an extra 30 seconds to estimate what time you’ll have to leave in order to arrive 10 minutes early. Then, enter that departure time before the appointment name. This makes for easy reference when consulting your schedule during the day.-
For example, a 10:30 am appointment that requires 20 minute door-to-meeting-place travel time would be entered as:
“leave 10:00 - Meet with Lance”
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- Identify details to help you be prepared.
When entering an appointment in your calendar, make a list of what to take.- This can be entered on a sticky note and put in your planner, or
- It can be written in the “Notes” section of the appointment in your digital planner.
- Most importantly, it must be somewhere you automatically look before leaving for the appointment. (Make it even easier on yourself by preparing the night before–see our tip on this here.)
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Set an alarm to ring when it is time to switch gears.
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The alarm is a reminder that it is time to finish one activity, and prepare for the next. Tasmanian Devil-style people seldom leave time for “wrapping up” in order to prepare for their next activity.
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In general, set the alarm to ring 15 minutes before it’s time to leave. You know yourself best! If you need 45 minutes to clean-up and have a bite to eat before leaving, set the alarm for 45 minutes before your departure time.
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Setting the alarm for the departure time itself isn’t as effective because it can create a rushed feeling when you realize that you aren’t ready to walk out the door.
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Using the alarm in your scheduling program (ex. Outlook or Entourage) is convenient because you can set it when you enter the appointment. Sync with your PDA (Palm Pilot, Blackberry, etc.) which then serves as the alarm! If you won’t be near your computer or PDA, use the alarm on your watch, phone, kitchen timer, etc.
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Memorize an exit statement and be comfortable excusing yourself.
Have you ever found yourself talking with someone while the thought “I’m late!” is flashing across your mind? And for whatever reason, you can’t seem to find an easy conclusion to the conversation?Have a simple statement ready to go, and be bold in using it. For example, “Hey, I’d love to continue this conversation another time, I have another appointment to go to (or prepare for).” Few people will hold the fact that you’re trying to be responsible against you.
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Envision your timely arrival.
Take 2-5 minutes every morning to envision yourself arriving at your appointments on time. A relaxing time to do this can be while enjoying a cup of tea or coffee—which may mean adding time to your morning routine. Do you grab your coffee on the go? Allow an extra 15 minutes and sit down to enjoy, and visualize. Retraining yourself out of crises mode may feel foreign at first… stick with it!
Now, be a fly on a wall for a moment—a very different moment. You are in a room where a 2-person meeting is about to take place. One woman walks in, takes a seat, pulls out her notebook—she’s ready. Another woman walks in (on time!), sets her bag down while greeting her colleague with a smile, “Great to see you! How was your weekend?”
Refreshing, isn’t it?
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Shawn Tuttle is founder of Project Simplify
4. Your Simplification Tip
Do the tough things first
If you have a list of tasks of similar priority on your ToDo list, do the least appealing one first. This disproportionately lightens your load since the dreaded things “weigh” more than the easy ones. You are also more likely to finish your list since doing the easy things is, well, easy!
(Coincidentally, this is similar to one of the anti-procrastination tips in the first featured article in In The News below. That’s two of us who agree…so it must be a good idea! :-))
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5. In the News
NOTE: We’ve decided to remove the “& On the Web” portion of this section’s title. In future issues, if we have features “on the Web”, we will highlight them in a separate “On the Web” section.
If you know of something in the news that should be featured here, let us know!
Procrastination is a Waste of Time (Carolina Newswire)
URL: http://tinyurl.com/pghfm
“We all have tasks that we don’t like to do. Procrastinating only prolongs the agony.” This article has some good ideas on how to end that agony.
Back-to-School Time Management for Moms (The Conservative Voice)
URL: http://tinyurl.com/o9dhx
This article focuses on stay-at-home or work-at-home moms. Now that the kids are out of the house for a big chunk of the week, you have more time to work with. Here are some tips on how to work with it.
Moving toward effectiveness in your business (Entrepreneur Magazine)
URL: http://tinyurl.com/oc4pu
Three basic, smart tips on how to be, well, more effective in your business!.
Purging your closet (The Vancouver Sun)
URL: http://tinyurl.com/qbq8o
Fall is easily the best time of year to clear out your closet, since the change of season demands that you re-evaluate your clothing options anyway. This article takes you through the process with a fair amount of detail.
6. Featured at ProjectSimplify.com
The “Email this” feature
All of the blog posts on our site have an “Email this” link down on the lower right of the content area. It’s part of the “meta” information area, just below the post, along with “Print this”, the category names, and the date of the post.
The “Email this” link will take you to a short form where you specify your recipient, and who it’s coming from (i.e., you). You can also add a note or comment which will be passed on to your recipient along with the link to the blog entry. There’s a little security check to prevent “spambots” from misusing our form—you need to enter the unique 5-digit code shown there. Then just click the “Mail it!” button.
Another cool use for this feature is to send links to yourself, if you find something you want to read later, or want to save, etc. Either way, you can take care of it all right from our site, using the “Email this” function. :-)
7. Keep Smiling
The Legend of Smile Muscles vs. Frown Muscles
We’ve all heard about how it takes more muscles to frown than it does to smile. It’s often mentioned by smile advocates (like us, I guess!) as a good reason to, if we may mix our clichés, “turn that frown upside down”.
You may even be floating numbers around in your head now, based on which version of this aphorism you’ve heard most often. Was it 100 muscles to frown, and 10 to smile? Was it 17 to smile, and 41 to frown? 37 to frown, and 22 to smile?
Whichever version you have been relying on, don’t sweat it too much. It turns out there are a great many versions of this little bit of “science”. In fact, this page at the legendary Urban Legends archive (Snopes.com) cites several instances of print journalism which together show a wide variance on this statistic. The author then goes on to discuss the possible origins of the saying, and to make some interesting points about the social nature behind smiling, and why society would come up with an elastic “fact” such as this popular one. It’s an interesting read.
And smile while you read it, for Pete’s sake! You’ll save energy (or so I’ve heard).
Here’s the URL: http://www.snopes.com/science/smile.asp
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Thanks for reading!
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