The Simplifier #47 - Gratitude for Your Assets
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Contents:
1. A Note From Shawn
2. Our Featured Quote
3. Article: Take Inventory of Your Assets
4. Your Simplification Tip
5. In the News
6. Featured at ProjectSimplify.com
7. Keep Smiling
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1. A Note From Shawn
108 has been considered a sacred number in the spiritual culture of Hinduism and Yoga for a millennium. The most common reference is to a “mala” or garland of 108 prayer beads. This past weekend, yoga studios and organizations across the globe participated in a project called the Global Mala. This is the yoga world’s contribution to the United Nations International Day of Peace, a celebration of the fall equinox, and an invitation to “breathe the change you want to envision in the world”.
Here in Nevada City, local yogis gathered at the Wild Mountain Yoga Studio to participate in forming a “Mala around the Earth” by doing 108 sun salutations. (A sun salutation is a series of 12 postures linked by breath in a graceful flow.) I was one of those yogis. We began at noon on Saturday. Two hours and a good deal of endorphins later, we completed 108 salutations. Two days later, my hamstrings and arms were still reminding me that 108 was 53 more than I’d ever done at one time.
Sore body parts notwithstanding, getting together with a room full of people—knowing we were one tiny bead in this international mala—all sharing the intention of expanding world peace was an exhilarating experience. A wonderful reminder that changing the world begins with changing ourselves. This newsletter’s theme fits right in—gratitude is the change I want to breathe in the world. What’s yours?
Enjoy,
Shawn
Shawn Tuttle
Head Simplifier, Project Simplify
Co-editor, The Simplifier
2. Our Featured Quote
“At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.”
-Albert Schweitzer
3. Article: Take Inventory of Your Assets
By Shawn Tuttle
Q: What are assets?
A: More than stuff that is listed on a company’s balance sheet.
The American Heritage Dictionary offers this definition for asset: “1. A useful or valuable quality, person, or thing; an advantage or resource.” For our purposes, I’m tweaking this definition a little to be: assets are useful or valuable qualities, physical things, relationships, and experiences that support you. Why is awareness of your assets important?
Just as understanding what is draining your energy is the first step in stopping an outflow, remembering your assets helps you fortify and refuel.
Your assets become your personal foundation. They consist of skills, experiences, friendship/family supports, home and transportation, and tools of your trade—for example, computer & office equipment. Yours may also include things like: a well-developed client base, life lessons learned, your values, beautiful surroundings where you live, a loved pet, and/or your garden. They are the things that give you the ability to do your work in the world. Or they may inspire and encourage you to continue and grow. Or they may simply be just the thing to make you feel better after a tough day.
Even though they are good things, in our rush of daily life and focus on problems, we often take our assets for granted. Of course, just because you don’t think of something as an asset doesn’t mean it stops supporting you. Your friend Paul won’t cease to be supportive if you don’t list him as an asset. (Though you may burn in Hell covered with angry swarms of fire ants, tormented by guilt. ;-)) The real importance of your personal assets can’t be captured in a list or on a balance sheet. Remember, simplifying your life is primarily a quality of life issue: 1. getting your activities in line with your goals and values (i.e., what you are doing), and 2. doing these in a way that supports your essential self (how you are doing it). Appreciating your friend Paul’s support in achieving your heartfelt goals makes for a sweeter experience—in essence, it improves your quality of life. This brings us to a major asset that is often overlooked. This one is available to everyone. It’s extremely powerful because it roots you firmly in your heart. It assists your clarity and focus. It helps you stay in touch with what’s truly important for you and easily identify what can be let go of. It helps you remember the meaning in your work and activities. This asset is particularly interesting because it exists within the context of your other assets. Rather than being something you rely on, it’s a state of mind, a state of being. Got it yet? I’m talking about gratitude.
Gratitude returns us to the delight of innocence.
Really, taking inventory of your assets is step #1. Step #2 is upping the gratitude quotient. Guess what? You can combine the two in this one easy exercise! Make your own “Gratitude List”. It’s very simple:
- get paper and pen
- establish some quiet time for yourself (no interruptions)
- take a breath break
- list what you are grateful for. You can start with the assets mentioned above, “skills, experiences, friendship/family supports, etc.”
- let your heart lead this exercise
Going through this process, your heart may begin to feel glowing and warm. Savor this feeling. Close your eyes and release your brain from thinking. Let the warmth move through your body. Let the feeling linger in your smile for the rest of the day.
A gratitude list can come in handy in a variety of situations. It can provide a little pick-me-up or reminder of your blessings if you aren’t feeling so great, you can reference it when redoing a resume or providing a personal bio, or even as a reality check. Since a gratitude list reflects what’s in your life right now, it can serve as a reflection of your current situation.
Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have
into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos
to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast,
a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes
sense of our past, brings peace for today,
and creates a vision for tomorrow. - Melody Beattie, author
You have many useful or valuable qualities, physical things, relationships, and experiences that support you. Call them assets, call them blessings, call them things to be grateful for. Whatever their name, the easiest way to grow them is to appreciate them!
This concludes the Inventory series of articles. Moral of the story: stop the drains and grow the good things. Easy enough, eh?
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Shawn Tuttle is founder of Project Simplify.
4. Your Simplification Tip
Be a source of gratitude
Several years ago I decided to leave an organization I’d been with for a year and a half. It wasn’t a bad work situation, it was just time to move on. Well, the outpouring of appreciation for what I had done for them once I gave notice was amazing! I remember thinking, “It’d have been nice if they’d have told me this before!?”
While we don’t expect people to read our minds, we do often forget to let others know that we are grateful for their contributions. Whether acting within our job description or over and above the call of duty, one of the most rewarding gifts we can receive are kind words from another acknowledging our efforts.
Your tip this week is in the form of a challenge. How many people can you share kind words with? The barista at a café, your partner, the server at a restaurant, a colleague you don’t always see eye to eye with, someone you’ve had a hard time with in the past, your best friend. (And the obvious—the people on your gratitude list from the article above!) Think of something you are grateful for or appreciate about them and then tell them. Refrain from following up with justifications or explanations, just smile. See how this makes the other person feel. How does it makes you feel?
One additional benefit is that this very well may be the cheapest and easiest form of therapy available—so do it often for good health!
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5. In the News
In the News is compiled by The Simplifier co-editor Lance Brown.
Busy-ness is not the same as satisfaction (Star-Bulletin - Honolulu, HI)
URL: http://tinyurl.com/244g8v
Columnist Ruth Wong brings up the Pareto Principle, a.k.a. the “80/20 rule”, to make a simple point about deciding how to use your time.
Organizing your fridge (WTNH - New Haven, CT)
URL: http://tinyurl.com/2×8rm6
We’ve covered closets, garages, pantries, kids’ rooms, cars, offices…but I think this is the first time we’ve featured an article about organizing your refrigerator. And why not? You use it every day, right? [Enters “mother mode”] Right?…Because you look like a string bean. Have you been eating?
Too busy organizing to be productive (The Globe and Mail - Toronto, Ca.)
URL: http://tinyurl.com/ysxs8t
The smart thing is to be your own devil’s advocate, I always say. Or, I would always say that, if I had thought of it before just now. Either way, this article is about how overdosing on organizational systems (especially David Allen’s Getting Things Done) can possibly lead to an unproductive obsession with tabs, pens, and sharpening your scissors with aluminum foil. (And nobody wants to see that.)
If you know of something in the news that should be featured here, let us know!
6. Featured at ProjectSimplify.com
By The Simplifier co-editor Lance Brown.
Our Newsletter Archive pages
It’s been over a year since we featured our Newsletter Archives page in this section. Back then, said page had a relatively meager 13 issues listed on it. What a little punk!
Nowadays, our archives page is so beefy, it’s two pages! Between the two of them—the old Volume One and the current Volume Two—there are an eye-popping 47 issues of Simplifiers and Weekly Simplifiers. (If your eyes don’t pop the first time, try holding your breath for a while before you look. That should do it.)
What will you find in those archived issues? How about 150 or so news articles and web sites to help you simplify your life. How about two gaggles of original articles written by the Queen of Simplifica-sheen, Project Simplify’s own Shawn Tuttle? And umpteen slammin’ Tips to just straighten your entire life out if you squeeze them all together? How about a whole ton of obnoxious half-humor written by yours truly? How about I stop talking like this?
You know, I may be biased about how fantabulous our Newsletter Archives pages are. But you’ll never know unless you go there yourself, and read every single newsletter on there. And I know you want to know if I’m biased or not. It’s keeping you up nights. And there’s only one way to find out…
click –> Newsletter Archives Volume One (Our first year of publication: The Weekly Simplifier #1-18; The Simplifier #19-36)
click –> Newsletter Archives Volume Two (Our current year, from late April 2007 to present: The Simplifier #37-47 (so far))
P.S. - You will also find in these issues a great many reasons to Keep Smiling…
7. Keep Smiling
The Most Famous Mime Ever
If I say “world-famous mime”, and a name pops up in your head, I’d bet pretty good money that name is Marcel Marceau. The “world-famous mime” club is pretty darn small. And actually it just got a lot smaller, as Marcel Marceau passed away this past week, at age 84.
But we needn’t be sad about his passing. He lived a long and, by many measures, nearly ideal life, which he created from the ashes of very tough origins. (He was a 16-year-old Jew in France in 1939, when France entered World War II.) He reached millions (probably hundreds of millions) of people with his particularly impactful art. He was considered the undisputed master of his craft, an honored teacher, a goodwill ambassador, a national hero in his own country and a treasure in most others…

…and most relevantly, he made lots and lots of people smile. We should all do so well. :-) :-0 =>) :-*)
Links:
Video of the performance pictured above: http://www.youtube.com/v/zNqskkKMkFQ (5 min 15 sec)
Bio: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marcel_Marceau
Salon’s “Brilliant Careers” article (7-29-99): http://www.salon.com/people/bc/1999/07/27/marceau/
Quotes by Marcel Marceau:
“Do not the most moving moments of our lives find us all without words?”
“Music and silence… combine strongly because music is done with silence, and silence is full of music.”
“Do not meddle in the affairs of wizards, for you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup.”
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Thanks for reading!
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